Developing Charisma: Why It’s a Skill That Can Be Learned
What IS charisma? Is it an innate personality trait – or is it a skill that can be learned? Does charisma require you to be an extrovert – or can “shy” people be charismatic, too? Finally, is it really important in business today?
Although charisma can be difficult to define, this definition takes charisma out of the realm of personality traits:
Charisma is the ability to inspire and motivate people
to do MORE than they would normally do
DESPITE obstacles and personal sacrifice.
Charisma, therefore, is more than simply motivating someone to do something that they would have done without your influence.
Charisma brings others out of their shells and builds their self-confidence.
Charisma addresses the head and the heart of other people so that they will perceive regardless of the obstacles they may face or the personal sacrifices that may be demanded of them.
The 8 Characteristics of Charismatic Leaders
In the modern workplace of flattened organizational hierarchies, cross-functional leadership with or without a formal title has become an important criteria for an organization to survive. While it cannot be denied that some people may have a more innate talent to be charismatic, charisma can be learned.
Surprised that something as ineffable as “charisma” can be a learned skill? Once you understand the 8 characteristics that define charismatic leaders, you’ll be better able to inspire others to commit wholeheartedly to your vision.
- Appeal to BOTH the heart and the mind. One reason why leaders are often not perceived as being charismatic occurs when they focus exclusively on charts, graphs, and metrics. While important, such quantitative items do not inspire creativity in others. Story-telling has become a popular tool to entwine the quantitative outcomes with more esoteric and heartfelt reasons to achieve those outcomes.
- Have passion for the work. A leader will never be charismatic if they are lackadaisical about what they do and why they are doing it. Passion does not necessarily mean emotional fits or grand verbosity; passion can also be equated with focus and commitment to an outcome as well as its overall importance.
- Create an atmosphere of change. Charismatic leaders rarely maintain the status quo. They are visionaries who can see opportunities (often before others) and then have the courage to take the necessary actions to move forward toward their achievement. This requires being comfortable with change – but remember that change does NOT have to be chaos.
- Communicate in a clear, compelling way. Once again, charismatic leaders inspire others by appealing to both their hearts and minds. This requires the ability to describe complex ideas or goals in a way that is simple but still addresses the curiosity and creativity of others. There’s nothing worse than a leader who appeals to the hearts of followers through a powerful vision – but then leaves them without the means or strategy to attain it.
- Have abiding faith in the vision. Closely aligned with passion, charismatic leaders will go over, under, or through obstacles in order to achieve their goals. Obstacles are viewed as bumps in the road rather than derailing road blocks. This level of certainty and confidence inspires others to also move outside their comfort zones and take risks.
- May be unconventional. Although not necessary, charismatic leaders usually have some type of mannerism or communication style that separates them from others. While not absolutely essential, being somewhat unconventional is often equated with creative, outside the box thinking. It doesn’t require charisma to have others do what they’ve always been doing.
- Foster trust by a willingness to incur personal risk. Charismatic leaders walk the talk. In other words, they would never expect more from their followers than what they demand of themselves. By confidently taking such risks, it inspires others to be a little more daring, too.
- Influence from personal power (not position power). Being promoted to the C-suite will not automatically create charisma in a leader. In fact, a reliance on position power (or power that is attached to the job rather than the individual) is one of the best ways to lose charisma. Personal power arises from being present in interactions with others and from confidently expressing and brainstorming ideas. It’s more than just being liked by others: it’s being viewed by others as someone whom they can trust.
So, do you still think that charisma is an innate personality trait – or are you now a little more open to the idea that charisma can be learned? Just remember: although inherently neutral, charisma is best used for noble and positive reasons – NOT as a method to sway people down nefarious routes. (Think of Hitler’s passionate and charismatic speeches.)
But don’t be afraid of your own charisma in influencing others! And remember that charismatic leaders are never “cookie cutter” clones. Be brave in bringing your own exuberant uniqueness to the job!
Dr. Geri Puleo, SPHR, is the President and CEO of Change Management Solutions, Inc., an eLearning company focused on techniques to eliminate the 5 workplace stressors that create and sustain burnout: Job Change, Organizational Change, Work-Life Imbalance, Poor Leadership and Management, and Ineffective Human Resources. An entrepreneur for over 25 years, author, keynote speaker, blogger, career coach, university professor, and researcher, you can see her “in action” in her TEDx Talk on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hFkI69zJzLI. For more tips and ideas, please subscribe to her weekly “Success @ Work” eNewsletter at https://drgeripuleo.lpages.co/success-work-opt-in-page. To contact Dr. Puleo, please go to www.gapuleo.com.